Fortunately, my Begum will also become a mother-in-law in the near future. I inquired of him yesterday regarding his plans to maintain a pleasant home environment following the arrival of a daughter-in-law. They ought to be quiet right now. In any case, earlier today I awakened and tracked down this composition under my pad.
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I promise that after my son marries. That is why I am writing to you.
1: Both my speaking and my silence will be for the house’s pleasant atmosphere.
2: I will laud my girl in regulation for each beneficial thing and great work she does, and I will give her requests.
3: I won’t let married daughters get in the way of my life.
4: I will not harm my daughter-in-law in front of any of my relatives, the relatives of my daughter-in-law, neighbors, or anyone else I am familiar with.
5: I will not complain to any of his family members about anything that takes place in the house.
6: I won’t criticize him for anything like that because it won’t hurt my house or me.
7: I won’t tell her anything no matter where she goes with my son or when she comes back at night.
8: I will make it a habit to praise his manners, dishes, and clothes.
9: I will occasionally express my gratitude to my daughter-in-law for providing my son with comfort, convenience, clothing, and food.
10: In front of his family, I will keep praising his good deeds and words.
11: I will occasionally express my gratitude to the daughter-in-law’s parents for donating a cut of their liver to us in front of her.
12: I won’t make it a problem at home for him to wake up in the morning. because only a few years will be like this for him. At the point when kids begin going to class, getting up early will begin its own.
13: I will not compete with his knowledge and experience with my own knowledge and experience. Additionally, I will not consider my daughter-in-law’s generation gap issues to be a weakness.
14: I will take care of all of these things right away to ensure that my promises are kept without delay.
I pray that Allah will be with me and with me. And make it possible for me to comprehend the majority of these points. so that I can be content with myself and provide a peaceful environment for my daughter-in-law. Amen, and may Allah help my Begum Sahiba achieve her goals. Amen