Dear Parents, It is essential to open our eyes and recognize the consequences of neglecting our duties in shaping the behavior of our children. Recent incidents have highlighted a concerning trend where children seem to lack respect for their parents’ warnings and boundaries, leading to disrespectful behavior and demands for more.
One instance involved a child in a shopping mall who threw a tantrum after being denied a toy. The parents tried to reason with him, but their attempts to please him only resulted in the child manipulating them. Similarly, at a recent wedding, a child disregarded his mother’s advice about avoiding a drink due to ongoing medication, displaying a lack of fear for parental reprimands.
We must reflect on the increasing ignorance and materialistic desires of today’s children, which seem to correlate with the abundance of facilities and comforts available to them. A contributing factor to this behavior is the absence of fear in children regarding their parents’ displeasure. Many parents have become too lenient and forgotten the importance of setting boundaries and instilling discipline.
Pampering and providing comfort are crucial, but we must remember that proper upbringing requires balance. Children need to understand the consequences of misbehavior and respect their parents’ guidance. When parents refrain from enforcing boundaries and instead seek forgiveness for their own scolding, children may develop an attitude of arrogance and defiance.
History has shown that previous generations, despite experiencing occasional punishment, grew up to be obedient and content individuals. This does not imply that children today should be subjected to harsh beatings. Instead, it emphasizes the importance of parents prioritizing their children’s education, character building, and discipline.
In the past, parents valued education as a top priority, whereas today, the focus often seems to be solely on providing luxurious amenities. As parents, we need to regain control and guide our children towards becoming responsible, respectful, and disciplined individuals.
We urge all parents to open their eyes and recognize the significance of training and discipline in shaping the behavior of their children. By setting proper boundaries and instilling discipline with love and understanding, we can build a better future for our children and society as a whole.
Let us remember that it is through effective training and discipline that a home and family truly flourish.